Questions, answered.

Yes, please. The RSVP is what we count for the catering, the seating and the Akwa Otu, and it is the only list the organisers work from.

Your invitation states how many seats are held in your name. If you would like to bring someone extra, message the organisers before the RSVP deadline and we will do our best.

Only your travel: flights, accommodation, ground transport and the package fee you select. The ceremonies themselves are our gift to you. The order summary breaks down every line before you pay.

Of course. The packages exist because several guests asked us to handle it. If you would rather arrange your own trip, simply RSVP and skip the booking step.

Go to 'My booking' and enter the reference from your confirmation email together with the email address you booked with.

Your card details never touch this website. Payment happens on Paystack's own secure checkout page, and we only ever receive a confirmation that it succeeded.

No. A failed payment releases everything you selected straight back to the pool, and you can start again immediately. Nothing is charged twice.

Warmth, noise and a lot of food. Read the cultural notes on the Traditional page — they explain the wine carrying, which is the moment everyone comes for. You will not be expected to do anything except cheer and eat.

Not rude, but it will make you stand out for the wrong reason. Wear colour — the deeper the better.